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Breakups Electronically
March 9, 2007, 8:03 pm
Filed under: Love In The News

USA Today: Breakups are always hard no matter how you slice it

Breaking up it not so easy anymore. There is a lot more to it than people realize. Those little games we play with each other pretending not to care about our former partners but, it happens even if you don’t realize it.

Checking to see if they are online. Wondering who they are chatting with. What do you do? Do you stop hanging around the chat rooms you both once frequented? NO! Do you take them off your IM contact lists and email list? Well maybe!

It is not much different then a real life drama. You don’t stop going to the bars that you visited while you are both single and together.You may have accumulated a few new friends along the way and tensions will be high if you both are in the same room. This is expected.

It is hard to think the other person should be out having fun. If they are with someone else at the time it makes it even worse. Guess what, you are there too. That means you are looking just the same as your ex. Don’t get mad if they have found someone or something before you do. Get used to it and deal with it.

 

It is almost better to be online and break up because even in a crowded room you can get lost in private conversation with other room guests. Not so easy when you are in public face to face.

 

Cheers
Rokman

 

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